AnchorsAweigh

Perseverating on past mistakes and fails can become an anchor. 

Failure can mire us in doubt and misgiving and hesitation. Or, it can propel us toward betterness.

Some ways we can use the past as launching pad instead of an anchor...

• Focus on who we want to be, not on what we did or didn't do.
• Assess carefully and articulate clearly what we think caused the fail, rather than focusing on the result of the fail.
• Don't forget to acknowledge the wins and successes.
• Modify our behavior -- resource allocation, engagement strategies, expenditure of time, etc. -- toward achieving the outcomes we desire (which almost always means a "change" in previous practice).
• LEARN from the mistake/fail through examination and LEARN toward the corrective plan of action. Reflective practice, daily and intentionally, is key.

While some circumstances are outside our control, there are a bazillion things we can adjust that are within our span of influence. The habits we adopt and practice are key...

Anchors aweigh!