DeceivedDiseased

Deception is very much like a disease.  It can creep in on us unawares, and it can insidiously compound itself to the point in which we feel significantly compromised - cognitively, politically, emotionally, physically...

The disease of deception is problematic and limiting in any of its forms.  The worst form of that disease, however, is SELF-DECEPTION.

So, what are some of the symptoms of self-deception?

• Feelings of victimhood.  Thinking we deserve more/better, just because.
• Insecurity, which drives defensiveness.  Not being comfortable enough in our own skin to admit weakness and to genuinely seek assistance in closing those gaps.
• Bulletproofedness.  The misconception that we can go it alone, do it alone, accomplish it alone.
• Martyrdom mania.  Stuck on the belief that nobody cares like we do, nobody tries like we do.
• Condescension.  Believing we're (almost always) smarter than those around us.

Some antidotes to the disease of of the self-deceived?

• Strong, healthy relationships with thoughtful and honest others.
• Relentless focus on the BIG stuff.
• LEARN more.  Tirelessly, persistently, ubiquitously, pervasively.
• reflection...Reflection...REFLECTION!

Happy healing.