I recently read Future Driven: Will Your Students Thrive In An Unpredictable World? by David Geurin (2017).
· NEVER………...delay gratitude.
“A person who feels appreciated will always do more than is expected.” (p. 46)
I recently read Future Driven: Will Your Students Thrive In An Unpredictable World? by David Geurin (2017).
We -- all of us -- are connected, whether we want to admit it or not.
Easily seen are the ecological connections of nature and the underlying interdependence that goes with them. Social versions of that same interconnectivity and interdependence also exist. We are inextricably connected. That is more the case now than ever in human history.
Are we not richer, wiser, more understanding, when we consider the viewpoints, and the antecedents of those viewpoints, of others?
Purposefully keeping our "connections" open, and expanding our network of connections is an excellent way to grow, and learn, and get better.
LISTENING is an excellent way to make others comfortable connecting with us. It's a learnable skill.
BONUS: Eric Bibb nicely captures our connectedness in his song you can listen to HERE.
Getting better. On purpose. Every day.
Easier said than done. But it always starts with reflection. It's hard to purposefully move toward improvement (either personal or collective) until/unless we turn the mirror on ourselves. That mirror-gazing is both a look at what exists in this moment, and a look over the shoulder at where we've been.
WHY - Why have we thought and acted as we have been? Are those moves in alignment to where we want to go and what we want to be in the future?
WHAT - What needs to change today to bring us into that alignment? Some "stuff" likely needs to be halted, and other "stuff" needs to be ramped up.
HOW - Knowing the WHAT leads to the HOW. The required changes in habits don't occur on good intentions. Action of some kind is required. We need to be clear about how we intend to make those moves.
WHEN - We can't eat the whole elephant in one bite, but we can move the needle a little today (how's that for mixed metaphors?). NOW is the time.
GO!
(Tomorrow we can re-evaluate and revise as needed. It's sort of like continuous improvement.)
When we create targets -- goals, outcomes, expectations -- in life or work, we are faced with a series of decisions about how to hit those targets.
Most of those decisions fall into one of two categories:
Speed -- How fast and with what intensity are we going to pursue those outcomes?
Accuracy -- What variability in achievement/performance levels are we willing to tolerate?
Increased Speed almost always means decreased Accuracy. Increased Accuracy almost always translates into decreased Speed.
Knowing WHY we have chosen the targets is the starting point. When we are very clear about WHY we are trying to achieve whatever it is we deem worthy of our time, effort, and resources, then it's easier to find the right balance between the Speed at which we pursue it and the Accuracy tolerances we are willing to accept.
If we don't know the WHY, then neither Speed nor Accuracy matter much -- unless all we're doing is checking off boxes and writing reports.
Influencing others is tricky business. The late Dr. Phil Schlechty often reminded us that the members of our organizations are "volunteers." We must earn their engagement and effort (not demand it).
Leadership guru Dan Rockwell believes that winning over those volunteers boils down to two things that we must convincingly convey:
1. Warmth - Do others perceive us as kind, caring, friendly, honest, and service-minded?
2. Competence - Are others convinced that we are thoughtful, discerning, skillful, influential, and have sufficient positional power to deliver?
Stakeholders (internal and external) are constantly judging us against those two standards (whether they know it or not).
The number of "yes" responses we garner to each of those indicators in the two listings above is directly proportional to our effectiveness as leaders.
Note: Warmth precedes Competence for good reason...
Rarely do I re-post a blog. This one from 2015 was on my mind today...
I used to believe in coincidences and random events. No longer. I have come to view the encounters I have with others, even in this space, as being Providentially directed.
My clarity of understanding in that regard, though embarrassingly late arriving, triggers reflection on the subsequent responsibility I bear in these encounters.
Here we are. It is no accident. Our minds and spirits are somehow, inexplicably, intertwined at this moment.
How do/can I make your life and experience more positive as result?
I'll do my best to bring blessings your way. (It runs both ways, you know.)
Feels like there might be magic on the other side of this Divine Appointment...